Mr. Blessing’s Blog

December 18 2014

A New Year, New Start

Happy New Year! It’s a new start! Yes~! Today, you can cross off everything from your list. And create a new one! What are your goals this year? What are you going to do about love this year? Can you put aside any arguments from last year, and start fresh? Isn’t that the best gift to give yourself? Happy New Year to you! Happy New Year to Mrs. Blessing. Happy…

December 05 2014

Is Love on your Resolution List?

I make a list every year.   Get that new landscaping in. Fix this or that. Work out more. Get out in nature. The list can go on forever. Do you ever put things like this on your resolutions list: 1. Tell your wife you love her, every single day. 2.  Let the little things go. 3.  Turn those “pet peeves” into the cute little eccentricities you love about her….

November 29 2014

My Christmas Wish

I have one simple wish this year. A wish that I hold close to my heart. I wish for a Christmas romance like never before. I wish for candles. Lit and glowing like my heart when I see your face. And games that make my heart spin, and race. I wish to see you in all of your beauty. For me and for you. And to make you happy, my…

November 16 2014

New board game in time for holidays

It’s that time of year! Time to come up with gifts. And, time to come up with special memories. It’s a great time to try something new. Board games go hand in hand with the holiday season. So does love. This holiday season is all about family togetherness, and love. What could bring more togetherness, than a couples board game called Embrace! There are even three levels. In a romantic,…

November 15 2014

Saturday escape

Okay guys, slowly set down those lists. I know, your wife wants the window fixed. New flooring maybe. A new kitchen? But, let’s be honest. There’s something else she wants – far more. And, I am putting your love to the test today! Just go to your lady, whip her off her feet and listen to her every demand! A romantic card game may help with ideas – we have…

November 06 2014

Simple bliss

I read a comment the other day about letting the bliss of your wedding day last well into your lives. On that night, it sounds like a given. But, we all get busy. We all get encumbered by the stress of life. And, we all have that easy target. You know, the person who loves us the most. Take a moment and think about something you may have done, that…

October 29 2014

Who says garter belts are for wedding night?

Garter belts are a staple of weddings.    They add that little tease – that says, God is OK with us being attracted to each other. Making love. Enjoying the intimacy he gifted us.   But, once it comes off that night – it’s not the last time you should use a garter belt to highlight those special feelings that make butterflies bolt around in your stomach. Give it a…

October 21 2014

Sleeping in, and bubble baths

Who doesn’t like to sleep in as the weather cools. It is Heaven. What is even better?  A luxurious bubble bath. The smells. The warmth. The bubbles. Your special lady – It’s all the right mix for cleansing the soul. I encourage you to try to heighten that pleasure even more. There are so many ways to allow the bubbles to carry intoxicating aromas that reach up tickle your senses…

October 14 2014

Shaken..not stirred

It was the sexiest, most feminine thing I had ever seen. Mrs. Blessing in a tuxedo. No, not a suit. This – tuxedo. Get it now? That’s the point of today’s post. Beauty comes in so many different forms, and we all have our favorite dress. Our favorite color, or frill. Or, in this case – our favorite thing to see a lady wear. I mean, how many of you…

October 08 2014

Your love ‘to do’ list

I was just doing it – making a ‘to do’ list, that is. And I decided to add something that I consider a vital part of my day, to the list. Something that I usually don’t acknowledge as a ‘must do’ by way of these lists that often pile on duties, responsibilities and numerous efforts. I added one simple line: Kiss Mrs. Blessing. And then I realized, that I should…

October 02 2014

A man’s idea of romance

The outdoors may not sound so romantic to you. But did you know that to your man – the outdoors sounds like Heaven on earth? Think about it: You truly take in the heaven that is down here on earth, all of the beauty that God made. The most important, being your spouse – that beautiful woman who is lying next to you under, those miraculous trees, stars, with sounds…

September 19 2014

Favorite massage?

We have all been there. Long day. Hard day. We just need some love. And then your lover comes over to you. And massages you. Your shoulders? Back? Feet? Where do you like to be massaged? Where does it make the most impact? Can a massage turn a terrible day into – a romantic interlude? The touch of the one you love has more power than I can ever understand….

September 16 2014

A warm embrace

The moment that I knew I loved Mrs. Blessing was that moment when I wanted to simply – embrace her. In all of her beauty, my greatest desire was to have her arms warmly around me, and mine around her’s. A simple hug becomes so magical when it’s with the right person. Do you hug your spouse enough? Kissing aside, that warm touch, and friendly, supportive embrace, can make the…

September 10 2014

What makes her sweet?

We always talk about how sweet women are. But – what makes them so sweet? Or – what could make them… MORE… sweet! Have you ever tried combining your loves? Like – love of chocolate with love of your wife. It’s not silly!  Really – it is an experience you won’t forget. Envelope the love of your life, with your love of strawberries. I know, I know. Really, I am…

August 29 2014

Kissable lips

Just that word makes me tingle. Kissing. Kiss. Kissable. It’s almost as good as actually – well, kissing. It’s an intimate moment you can have with your spouse anywhere. In public. Private. Kisses can be a friendly peck, or a passionate moment of connection. You can tease with a kiss, or simply let your mate know how much you love them, in such a beautiful way. God knew what he…

August 27 2014

Labor Day Love

I cannot believe summer is almost over. Children are back in school. And this weekend is the final three-day weekend of the year. I don’t know about you, but I am going to make the best of it! My plan: A romantic picnic, just me and Mrs. Blessing. Envision it now: Whether you get away for the weekend, find a secluded spot in your bedroom or a nearby hotel -…

August 21 2014

Love around the pets

Dogs are man’s best friend. Right? Are there any exceptions?  Today just for fun I want to look at a fun topic that has at times made love at the Blessings household, well – a little interesting. I ask a question, and truly hope you all jump in and become a part of these blogs. They are for and about you! The question: What do you do when the mood…

August 13 2014

Live a Love Poem

Who doesn’t want a romantic man who writes her love poetry? Romance novels are the most popular books read. You know what is even more romantic? Living a poem! Give it a try. Set up a poem that you act out, as you read it. Or – your actions themselves can be the poetry in her ears, eyes and heart. Think about it. Your life is a romance novel! Line…

August 06 2014

Blow her away, Bond-style

Running out of ideas to make life exciting? Ever get the urge to be just a little bit more… James Bond? We all need a Bond moment when we sweep our wives off their feet, with exciting romance and passion! Unlike Bond – you are married! Why not plan a thrilling night neither of you will forget? Let me introduce you to a gift that like Bond’s spy toys will…

July 29 2014

Why her scent is so important

Every man loves a good perfume. And then there is this… A perfume or spray that takes this to an entirely new level. Let’s face it, women are beautiful creatures. They are soft and lovely. Just being in your presence, ladies, makes us men melt. So when our entire room is enveloped in that lovely soft scent that we love about you… we just get lost in our love. I…

July 22 2014

Some things should never be rushed

We live in a fast paced world. We’re rewarded for being in first place.  Multitasking is the best way to achieve at work.But there are some areas in life, where slow and steady still win the day.Lovemaking.Of course, many of us are so wrapped up in our fast paced lives, that we may need a little help. It is nothing to be ashamed of!  Even if you don’t necessarily need…

July 11 2014

Christians need help with foreplay too

I know I am a little biased. But, I believe Christians feel love and intimacy on an entirely different level. How could we not – we love in a spiritual way. Our desire for intimacy is tied to pure love. That is not to say that other love is not pure – all love should be cherished. But many Christians mistake their pure love for what they believe should be…

July 09 2014

Sexy and eco-friendly

These days, we often keep the planet – and our future generations – in mind when we purchase appliances, a home, a vehicle – even clothes and toys. We recycle. We care about breathing in fresh air and keeping things we can reuse or donate out of the land fill. God created a beautiful world, and it is our responsibility to appreciate the bounty we were given, and take good…

July 01 2014

Declare Your Independence – to Love

It’s that time of year. To celebrate Independence. To blast fireworks into the air – or watch in awe.  Summer is in full swing, and you are probably planning a barbeque and fun times with family and friends. Why not take a moment to declare your independence? Your independence to love freely and fully, with all of your heart. Set aside any ill conceived notions that even suggest that embracing…

June 24 2014

So – are you more ‘friends’ than lovers?

A reader recently posed this question: What if you feel more like friends, after years of marriage? As if the spark has gone forever? That’s exactly why Mrs. Blessing and I are encouraging you to plan a “summer fling.” Married one year? Or less? Or 50 years? There is no reason you cannot have a fun fling with your spouse. Go ahead, and be friends. That only makes your bond…

June 18 2014

Sweet smell of summer love

Love is sweet. So is summer love. Start a fling with your wife by showering her with gifts that make her feel – and smell – beautiful. Forget boring, regular perfume. Try something with pheromones – it will bring out her own beautiful scent. It will make you wild about her – intensify that original chemistry that attracted you to her in the first place. A simple gel is a…

June 13 2014

Introducing a toy every man needs

Okay, it is almost Father’s Day. And it’s Friday the 13th. A full moon. So I admit I am a little bit in a fun mood when I ask: why do women get dildos? I mean, what do we as men get? We have needs too! Well, guess what. We do get something, and while it doesn’t replace the beautiful wife in your life, it…

June 03 2014

Daddy’s Day – a double meaning

Who’s your daddy? Yes, I know. It’s a phrase that has a double meaning. I am talking about the meaning you think I am talking about. Your “daddy.” Wink, wink. Yes, Father’s Day is a time to celebrate your own father, with gifts that he will enjoy, a time to demonstrate that you appreciate all that he has done for you over the years. Teaching you to drive. Learning how…

May 28 2014

Memorial Day gratitude

Memorial Day this week was a special time for us to stop and be grateful for American heroes who – literally – gave everything for us. But thinking of those who matter most can be done year-round. Thank a veteran. Appreciate your pastor. Love your wife, no matter how much you think she is getting on your case. Don’t get so caught up in the day to day mundane parts…

May 20 2014

It IS all fun and games

Your wife is sexy. But, maybe you are out of ideas. You want her to know how much you cherish her, and to make every single night together magic. It’s OK. After all, your love will last a lifetime. We have ideas. And learning new ways to cherish your spouse can literally be – all fun and games. As the second installment in our commitment to provide you monthly ‘how-to’…

May 13 2014

Summer Love

 My parents are nearing their 50th anniversary.  Love remains in their eyes. I can almost feel the tears of love as they stare at each other, always just a little longer than necessary.  Do you ever wonder if your love will last so long?  Look deep into your spouse’s eyes. I bet you still see the love, even if things are growing.. well, a little  routine.  Just because you have…

May 05 2014

Mothers are gorgeous

Are you planning to pamper your wife this Mother’s Day?    What do you have planned? Dinner. A gift that honors her motherhood- maybe a stunning necklace that celebrates each life of your children. A new purse?    Don’t forget that when your wife becomes a mother, she is still a beautiful woman. And she wants to feel that way. So that should also be a highlight of your Mother’s Day celebration….

April 29 2014

Noticing the new haircut – and so much more

Did you fail to notice the haircut? How often have you realized that you missed a detail important to your wife. Or, missed commenting on it, and making her feel special. A hair cut. New dress.  After all, to me, Mrs. Blessing is my dream girl every day. Gorgeous and stunning, soft and sweet. Just her voice makes my heart beat to a new tempo. To men, a haircut may…

April 21 2014

What a lady wants on her anniversary

Your anniversary comes only once a year. And your wife knows that. She looks forward to it. With excitement and anticipation. It’s a day that offers opportunity to relive your honeymoon like none other. Make the most of it. Ladies want to be surprised. They want to feel beautiful and special. It’s always good to include traditional favorites: her favorite bouquet. Chocolates. A perfume or lotion. Romantic dinner. And a…

April 15 2014

Take a Tax Holiday

Tax day. A phrase synonymous with words like “stress,” and “worry.” Today’s a day that reminds us of a big stressor that can wreak havoc on a marriage: Money. Bills. Budget. It makes you think about all of your responsibilities. It’s a good day to be prepared for, because even the healthiest marriages may suffer from stress of money. Even if your taxes are paid and filed, you may still…

April 06 2014

Christian husbands: Use sex toys to gain new comfort

Sex toys. It’s a phrase that a Christian may immediately set aside as something negative. In fact, sex toys only represent what you use them for. Are you a womanizer? Of course not. You’re a loving husband. And for you, sex toys are a positive tool that can in fact make your wife feel more of the beauty that God created for us to experience. Toys can be a difficult…

April 01 2014

April Fool’s Day: Be a fool in love

It’s April Fool’s Day. A day I can’t resist playing an innocent prank on at least one friend. How else would they know I loved them? But it’s also a day that I become a fool in love. It’s a fun tradition that this year aligns with Easter. I like to surprise my wife – and make her react just as my buddies do when they discovered a prank. Sweep…

March 25 2014

It’s Spring: Plant romance for the year to come

Spring is a time when everything starts to bloom. I’ve always seen it as a good opportunity for a dedicated husband to invest in romantic gifts that last the year-round. Think about it: Your wife loves roses? Plant a beautiful rose plant that she will see every day as she walks in the door, or every night in your bedroom window. Miniature roses come in every exotic color. Of course, it…

March 17 2014

St. Patrick’s Day: Getting Lucky in Love

St. Patrick’s Day: Getting Lucky in Love As men, we’ve all heard the term “getting lucky.” And we all know what it suggests. The giggling it brings out in young men who may not have found the blessings of a true soul mate. As we celebrate St. Patrick’s Day today, and listen to talk about the “luck of the Irish,” I have a fun challenge for you to bring into…

January 02 2014

10 Manly Acts of Kindness

Doing acts of kindness for our wives doesn’t have to make us feel stripped of our manliness or as door mats but rather as confident husbands choosing to bless our wives with our strength and support. Nice guys are often portrayed as weak or soft by images in media within our culture, but being a nice husband doesn’t have to mean we lose our tough edge that our…

October 29 2013

Shower her with acts of kindness

Somewhat like sex is always on a mans mind, how your wife is “feeling” is always in the forefront for hers. Take care to shower her with love and affection which sometimes can translate into acts of kindness to make her feel special and cared for.   Shower her simply by: Bringing the groceries in for her Giving her a foot massage after her bath Bringing her flowers…

September 18 2013

Sex With The Wife God Gave You

There is a very common saying among secular culture that includes the phrase, “I don’t know if could have sex with only one woman for the rest of my life” and in some cases it goes further to the core of dread, thinking that one woman may cut you off or severely limit your sexual nature. Luckily this is only a myth among healthy marriage relationships.  As two people…

September 18 2013

How to buy a Vibrator for my wife

I feel like a broken record here, but START SLOW when thinking adding a toy in your bedroom!!  Don’t go buy some crazy oversize Hemi looking thing and expect your sweet wife to be fired up about the new addition to the family.  Be smart like in anything you do and take some time to think about your wife’s comfort level with toys in the bedroom first.  Ask yourself: Has…

September 12 2013

The Marriage Counter to Society, Little league, and Carpool Rules

 Have you found yourself wondering how you and your spouse have grown apart in such different directions which is void of intimacy and physical connection?  You may have both been working hard raising children and advancing career goals, sacrificing time together, without realizing the cost to your marriage; and I don’t mean $$.  Once you have time to reflect on where you are now that those children are older…