MRS. BLESSING’S BLOG

December 18 2014

The little things – Merry Christmas!

This holiday season can be stressful!   So I want to remind you – to remember and cherish the little things! Did he open the door for you? Kiss your cheek? Listen to you ramble about your holiday shopping woes? He loves you! Men and women are indeed, different. And it takes patience to appreciate what is important to each other. Cherish that. Take a moment every day to listen…

December 11 2014

No place like home for the holidays

There is no place like home for the holidays. And why is that? I think you know why. It’s that smile. The eyes. The smell. The love. It’s your family, of course. And, that special someone. This is the season to celebrate.  Celebrate the holidays. Celebrate love. Need some ideas? There is nothing quite like a thrilling surprise. The great thing about these games and fun activities, is that they…

December 03 2014

Surprise in his stocking

I have a fun idea this year.   Put something special in your husband’s stocking this year. Put – yourself – in his stocking. No, not really you. I mean – a stocking for you to wear. For him. A body stocking. It is every man’s fantasy to see you dress up. His dream girl paying attention – entirely to him. Loving and adoring him, setting aside any mistakes or…

November 28 2014

Don’t forget your bedroom blessings on Black Friday

    Today is a rush. Black Friday is here! It can be a lot of fun for ladies to head out with friends. Plan out a memorial trip that kicks off the holiday season of giving. You grab the best deals. Shop for your friends, your children, your love. Don’t forget to get what you need to celebrate #bedroomblessings this year! If you are like me, a long day…

November 18 2014

What I am thankful for – You

I am thankful that the sun rises each morning.   Thankful, for your eyes to look into as I open mine. I am grateful for the joys and pleasures in life- The ones that make me smile, And the ones that make me cry. I love the fact that I can cuddle next to you each evening. Making love to you is truly a Heaven on Earth. It is a…

November 12 2014

How does weather affect your love?

Is the weather getting cold out there? Or, do you live in a warm climate that – just isn’t getting cold enough?   Weather can really impact our love lives, even if we don’t realize it. But, there is a lot we can do to heat things up!  Ladies, here is a lubricant that will warm things up for you. It will make you want to turn off the house furnace,…

November 06 2014

Gambling with love

I was head over heels with Mr. Blessing the day we were married. It’s a moment I share all the time. With myself, and allow tender feelings to make me glow all over. But, even I had that fleeting question – marriage is a lifelong commitment. Was I gambling with love? Could there be an even greater love than this? Of course,…

October 30 2014

Halloween is over – dress up isn’t!

I hope you had fun on Halloween, even if you made it  your own special night. But, the dress up doesn’t have to stop there! You got an entire weekend ahead of you! And you don’t even have to have an entire costume to dress up. (Although we do recommend it, in the right mood! – or to set a mood of pure romance. Props like these can make any…

October 20 2014

My secret for going sleeveless

This is a good time of year to wear beautiful dresses. Holiday evening gowns.  Even fun Halloween costumes. I have tried for years the many options for going sleeveless with style. Those bra strings get in the way, and many sleeveless bras, well – they pulled me in the wrong direction. Then I found these beauties. Not only are they classy looking, but they allow you to be classy, sexy…

October 14 2014

Halloween night

I am not a big fan of Halloween by any stretch. But, the dress up I can get the hang of. I love to dress up for Mr. Blessing. (Don’t you!) And, he loves it even more when I dress up for him (and vice versa)! So, why not join us in some fun – and share what your plans are this Halloween? Are you dressing up? Celebrating? Any role…

October 10 2014

Value of a massage: for ladies!

Ok, ladies. We’ve all seen those ads. You know, the ones that advertise “back massagers.” They aren’t fooling anyone. And, of course, they know that. But, they have left the impression that these need to be – well, vibrating. As in, vibrators. The fact is, there is a lot of value to the non-vibrating massager. It offers a healthy way for every woman to hit that certain spot that makes…

October 03 2014

Every day is an anniversary

I know, I know. Some people go overboard. But, there is something to the whole fun of celebrating anniversaries. And I am not talking about celebrating your big day, or even the day you met. I am talking about being sentimental and celebrating other big moments: The first day you met. First kiss. First dance. Any special memory that is unique to the two of you. Dine out at the…

September 19 2014

Admit it – we all want to be ‘heartbreakers’

Ok ladies. Tell me that you haven’t been here: In that beautiful moment when you put on something like this. And you pose for your husband. Did you not feel like a ‘heartbreaker?’ A woman to be desired? A woman who is desired. It’s OK! Because – you aren’t breaking his heart, you are making it. So enjoy. Wear your sexiest. It’s  your gift to that one special guy. And,…

September 17 2014

Christian love: Why we cherish in God’s name

We have been getting some great response to our site, by Christians who understand how special love is. Love is a gift from God. Something to be cherished. But also something to be celebrated. In ways big and small. We are fortunate to understand that embracing our love and passion for each other, is exactly what He wants us to do. He gave us temptations – but also celebrations. We…

September 10 2014

When I fell in love

This morning, I looked into Mr. Blessing’s eyes, and I remembered why I fell in love. It was easy. Because in that moment, I fell again. That’s love. You just keep falling. And you love every moment of it. You love everything about that person. And you feel that spark. Every time. It’s a funny thing, falling in love again – with someone you cannot even remember living without. Did…

August 29 2014

Fall romance – it’s coming!

Fall is on it’s way, and as we enjoy our last of summer – I am already feeling excitement grow in me about the upcoming holiday season. And the weather – a cool down – maybe falling leaves, or plants blooming in their glory. Windows open, fireplaces creating that special kind of romance we get in Autumn. It is time to start planning for a memorable Fall season! Whatever your…

August 26 2014

What are body stockings?

Looking to elongate your legs? To highlight your curves? Or for a sexy look that incorporates romantic lace with a controlled fit? Body stockings may be for you. They make everyone look sexier. And they come in a variety of designs. And they’re also very inexpensive. Make a statement in this beautiful crocheted design. Like fish nets? A fishnet body stocking will drive him wild. You will feel glamorous and…

August 20 2014

Why ‘punishment’ toys are healthy and fun

Ever wish you could just spank your husband? Get your mind out of the gutter! And no, I don’t mean corporal punishment for bad behavior. But – I don’t mean being naughty either. At least not in the way you may immediately think. I’m talking about being sexy. Romantic. Exciting. Every man wants some sweet punishment from his wife. Check out this kit. It has everything you need to create…

August 12 2014

In a word: Cherish

We spend a lot of time sharing fun ideas to cherish your spouse. Ideas to surprise them. To demonstrate your love. Enjoy your love. Today I just wanted to take a moment and focus on that one word: Cherish. Really think about that. Another person whom you love with all of your heart, agreed to cherish you. And you agreed to cherish them. It takes my breath away to think…

August 05 2014

Keep that workout appointment

As women, we like not only to be pretty – we like pretty things. These crystal glass eggs allow us to be both – they enhance our health, working out a muscle as important as any other – on some nights maybe more important – and they are just pretty to look at. Made of hand-blown premium Borosilicate glass, these crystal glass kegel eggs are designed to bring pleasure to…

July 28 2014

Warming? Cool? How to pick the right lubricant?

The commercials on TV are cute.They often depict a couple who with the magical combination of a lube for him, and a lube for her – take things to new explosive heights.In the real world, it can seem more complicated than that.Especially for us ladies – some of us need lube just to be comfortable during lovemaking. Often, lubricant just seems like a messy, medical procedure, that can sterilize your…

July 22 2014

That nagging feeling

Ever get that nagging feeling that you – well, nag a little? Or, a lot?Does it impact your marriage’s romance?We all get caught up in our pet peeves. He leaves the toilet seat up .. every. single. time.He never buys you flowers.You have to ask him to do the dishes.Remember one thing; You are compliments to each other. So don’t expect your spouse to be, well – exactly like you! You…

July 16 2014

“Summer clean” fun

              Life is about multitasking. Usually that means balancing one too many projects at work. Or taking your kids to practice as you eat dinner on the way. But I have a fun idea that will take multitasking – and summer cleaning – to a new level. Make cleaning time a fun time that your husband won’t be able to resist joining in on….

July 08 2014

Shoe shopping is for him, too

Ok ladies, now let’s talk about something really important. Shoes. Are you ever teased by your mate for loving to shoe shop? Well, buy the right shoe, and he just may start to understand what an impact they can make. Shoes can make us feel good. Feel beautiful. The highlight legs, lifting us off the ground. The right ones will make us appear to float on air. What better time…

July 01 2014

Colors of love

My favorite part of Fourth of July are all of the colors. Red, white and blue. Purples, pinks, reds and greens sparkling in the sky. Colors light up emotions inside you. They make you enjoy life better. Feel things more strongly. Never forget just how important colors are year-round, to making life more exciting. Colors we wear. You should have bright colors like orange, yellow or scarlet, for fiery, exciting…

June 24 2014

Summer love – with kids out of school

Summertime is a fun time to explore your love life. But – it is also a time of the year when the kids may be around more often. How do you fit in romance, when the kids are around? Do you have to restrict love until the wee hours of the night? Or, can you hide it in plain view. Don’t hang up your passion during the summer! Quite the…

June 18 2014

Plan a ‘Surprise Party’ for your summer fling

Have you started your summer fling yet? Throw off your work clothes, and put on something that will kick it off right – tonight! Every woman deserves to feel gorgeous. Find a chemise, baby doll – or even try some sexy pasties – that compliment your curves. Better yet, just cover yourself in rose petals. Now, lie in wait. When your husband gets home, let him find you. Don’t say a…

June 13 2014

Howling at the Moon: Friday the 13th Blessings

It’s Friday the 13th. It’s a full moon. What to do? How about delving into your wild side. You know, that God-given desire to enjoy the well-earned beauty of life. Marriage should have perks. And maybe howling at the moon – from your marriage bed – should be one of them. Try something new that will literally make you howl. Like a new position. It’s easy to enhance your bedroom…

June 03 2014

Honoring Fathers

Honoring Fathers   It’s true. As mothers, the phones light up on our day, as children call. They send flowers. Cards and gifts. It’s less true on Father’s Day. It’s just a different kind of relationship. Men are not the same as women. And that fact spices up life, frankly. I certainly don’t want to be a man, nor does Mr. Blessing borrow my chemise anytime soon. I encourage you…

May 28 2014

Remembering

This Memorial Day week, we are looking back. Remembering heroes we knew, and know. Family and friends who gave their lives to keep us free and safe. It’s a somber time. But a good time to always remember the incredible value of memories. Memories are powerful. They are important. We keep loved ones and heroes alive and well in our hearts, where their stories can always be told. Always create…

May 20 2014

How to take your romance up a notch

I dare you – to take your love up a notch.   Or 30.   In our second installment of how to use sex toys, I want to introduce to you some fun ways to take your love to that next level.   The “I Dare You – 30 Sealed Seductions” is a good start because you get to try new things. And, learn what you like. What you both…

May 13 2014

Plan a Summer Fling

Love formed overtime is just as beautiful as love at first sight. The most beautiful love lasts a lifetime. Sadly, in movies and often in life, marriage is often depicted as boring, something that dies over time. I don’t believe it for a minute. And you shouldn’t either. How can a love so strong that you struck your stake in the ground – for life – be anything other than…

May 05 2014

Celebrate the beauty of motherhood

If you’re a mother, it’s a moment that you will never forget: those tiny feet. Fingers curling around yours. Once you have a baby, your life changes. You give up a lot to focus on their tiny but big needs. They mean everything to you. Your dreams merge into theirs. But for mothers, another sacrifice is their body. We love and want our children so much that we are okay with the possibility…

April 29 2014

Get on the same page

Have you ever found yourself becoming closer to your girlfriends than your spouse? Ever find yourself talking about your second half to those girlfriends? After all, our friends can at times be our best support. They likely see things from your point of view, as a woman and a wife. You’ve had an extensive conversation about your life with your girlfriends. Received, and gave, feedback to and from people who…

April 22 2014

Anniversary night should be a new honeymoon

Roses. Chocolates. A romantic dinner. Anniversaries come once a year. They’re a time we spend stressing over how to celebrate. Wondering what your husband will get you (appliances = a big no!). And what to get him. Excited in anticipation that can grow into something beautiful on that special day. And as the years add to your love story, the day can begin to feel the same. Rose. Chocolates. Romantic…

April 15 2014

Avoiding material worship for what matters

It’s Tax Day. A day that reminds me of something that’s important for every woman to keep in check: My worship is for the Lord, and my love for my husband – not money! Many possessions enhance our gratitude for life: they make us enjoy life better. They make us feel better, celebrate life. And without money, we of course couldn’t eat, pay for necessities like home and utilities, and…